Why Tinder is Bad

I am a person who craves validation like anybody else. So, of course, Tinder has been part of my life. But man, dating apps suck! I will tell you why Tinder is bad, from my experience:

When I started to use the app in 2013, it was all fun and games. Back then, I only swiped for guys with the oblivious intent to maybe find someone who is relationship material. Guess how that turned out. The app was new, people were actually still talking when they matched and a loooooot of dates took place. One or two flings came from it too, but it was just a fun way to meet new people.

Since then the app has evolved into an annoying pastime which rarely brings any value to my life.

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Who to Follow – Part I

Social Media is a powerful tool. All of us are following and being followed. We get inspired by the works of others and inspire ourselves. I want to use this blog to occasionally highlight who you should follow on social media. Here comes part one of my „Who to Follow“ Lists:

Dominatrix Iris

Mistress Iris is my all-time favorite dominatrix! This elegant, classic, sophisticated woman has me under her spell! The Japanese Seductress is based in Los Angeles but will fly out to meet you, of course (her extensive travel plans make it easy). Her look is deceivingly innocent and will lull you into a sense of (false) safety. Other than her remarkable look and vibe, I mostly appreciate her playing with women. She displays her love for women openly on all her social media and website, and I am grateful for not seeing another dominatrix catering exclusively to the male fantasy of sex!
Maybe one day I can find myself in her captivating presence.
Give her some love on www.dominatrixiris.com or follow her on:

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The One That Got Away – Who I lost

For me, noticing that I like women started pretty early. Checking women out has been so common for me since I was a teen that I was startled when one returned the notion! I had never openly expressed my interest, as I haven’t really had admitted to myself that this goes beyond finding women beautiful. This is about the one that got away, who I wanted most.

We met at work and got along very well. While talking about anything really, it became clear that she has had her experiences with women, and she liked me. I didn’t know what to do with this information. It had me overwhelmed and I didn’t act on anything she was throwing at me. Throughout the weeks we hung out, we got to know each other better, and we got very comfortable around one another. It was one night we were watching TV at my place that she started to kiss me. I was so confused.

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Appearance of a Vulva, Vulva, Vulva!

When trying to write about certain topics, like the appearance of a Vulva, I struggle sometimes. But then I ask myself, why don’t we talk about things? I have caught myself multiple times, deleting texts about sensitive topics, like the appearance of a Vulva, because I thought they were too personal.

I didn’t question myself there, I didn’t ask if it is necessary to hold back for other people. But no! I refuse to do that! This blog is dedicated to liberating people from social stigmas! Why in the world would I hold back on here?! We need to talk about things, that make us uncomfortable and we need to ask why they make us uncomfortable. Wrong and right is a social construct, we are taught what normal should look like. We are taught to not share certain things in our respective cultures.

Let’s tear this down together.

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